My pastors often talk about how bad their relationship was until Julia decided one day she would just start pouring the love on her husband, Pastor John. So for weeks, no matter what he did to provoke her, she refused to participate and just prayed for God to give her the strength to do it His way. Finally her love seed began to sprout, and today they have the most fantastic marriage.

How do you handle it when your wife/husband does something that irritates or offends you? This has got to be one of Satan's strongest footholds on so many families, and we can choose to listen to our spirit or our flesh. I know that I am guilty of pride and listening to my flesh far too often and although my husband and I have an excellent marriage, the very infrequent times we do but heads I still tend to listen to my flesh and don't easily submit.

We are supposed to repent and confess to one another. So that's my confession and I vow now in front of you all and God that next time we disagree I will submit to my husband immediately. Thanks for listening. God Bless :)

that is a wonderful vow Karrilee. I'm sure we all fall short in our relationships with our husbands. but if we seek the Lord first, we will surely succeed in our marriage! :hug: thanks for sharing!